RE-DEFINING SUCCESS: Woos and Woes

Sheelagh Cabalda is a partner, mama and educator, who has worked extensively in youth development, cultural studies, multicultural counseling, cancer support, higher education, events administration and non-profit management. Redefining success is a combination of positive & changing self-concept, inner directedness and a balance of priorities. It is personal empowerment -- taking charge over what we can control & accepting what we cannot. Every day is an attempt to do just that.

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Pious Angel

Sadly, my mother-in-law has lost four siblings and her husband in less than two years. Most recently, A.'s beloved Tita Lita died. He has shared many affectionate stories of her by his side as a young boy growing up in the Philippines as well as in his adulthood, her wisdom in finding a life partner. I am deeply grateful to have had many occasions to just sit and visit with her and chat about Life. Also thankful that N. will always have the memory of enjoying breakfasts and 'real bacon' with Lola Lita.

In loving memory of Angelita Branam
b. 7.2.44 - d. 4.25.26

stories relayed to me of a most devout angel's
comforting presence --
tita who served a soothing force in his times of loneliness
guidance --
tita who offered warmth and protection
healing love --
tita who ferried peace to his broken heart
her mighty faithfulness and resilience
an angel's grace so soft and light
his guardian Tita Angelita