Sheelagh Cabalda is a partner, mama and educator, who has worked extensively in youth development, cultural studies, multicultural counseling, cancer support, higher education, events administration and non-profit management. Redefining success is a combination of positive & changing self-concept, inner directedness and a balance of priorities. It is personal empowerment -- taking charge over what we can control & accepting what we cannot. Every day is an attempt to do just that.
15.7.20
Daughters of Rutgers
junior year at Rutgers
our first apartment off campus
inherited from floormates a year older
our first time
we did it together
. . .
our attempt at a homecooked meal
falafel with fava beans
soaked first then mashed
no food processor in 1992
the aroma of onions, parseley, red pepper,
salt and cumin
filled our two-bedroom flat
. . .
almost like Sally's lebanese restaurant
in Bay Ridge, Brooklyn
my roommate spoke of
her family's legendary feasting tradition
. . .
crisp fattoush salad
ingredients from the local co-op
where she rented a plot of land for veggies
lettuce, cucumber, red onion, grape tomates,
radishes, mint, lemon
so fresh we could taste the dirt and
the rainwash from the produce
and pita chips from the middle eastern bakery
on george street
. . .
breaking bread together in our first apartment
relishing our strength and independence
and sister love on the banks of the ol' Raritan
. . .
'tis then the daughters of Rutgers meeting
brush mould'ring dust from mem'ry's screens
and deep in faith renew our greeting,
for love we bear to Queens'