RE-DEFINING SUCCESS: Woos and Woes

Sheelagh Cabalda is a partner, mama and educator, who has worked extensively in youth development, cultural studies, multicultural counseling, cancer support, higher education, events administration and non-profit management. Redefining success is a combination of positive & changing self-concept, inner directedness and a balance of priorities. It is personal empowerment -- taking charge over what we can control & accepting what we cannot. Every day is an attempt to do just that.

26.8.11

Calm before the storm

Jersey Shore before Irene's arrival

I've been caught in a storm surge at work, trying to keep from drowning in RFP writing frenzy, and my long weekends have been thwarted some by draft upon revised draft, rationale for this, statistics for that . . . and running around to get local police clearances for our updated adoption paperwork. As hard deadlines approach and pressures swell, I instinctively turn to listen to my most comforting sage, Silence.

Silence reminds me to go beyond fear and takes me into the place where love grows, where I can refuse to follow the impulses of anger and dread. Beyond accompanies Silence and roots me . . . to feel myself. Along with Silence and Beyond, Prayer is not too far behind. Prayer is my medicine woman who chants lullingly, clears my head, and brings peace back to my soul.

As Irene hugs the shore, I salute the Sun, and connecting hearts sing to me. I breathe . . . and embrace the moment.