RE-DEFINING SUCCESS: Woos and Woes

Sheelagh Cabalda is a partner, mama and educator, who has worked extensively in youth development, cultural studies, multicultural counseling, cancer support, higher education, events administration and non-profit management. Redefining success is a combination of positive & changing self-concept, inner directedness and a balance of priorities. It is personal empowerment -- taking charge over what we can control & accepting what we cannot. Every day is an attempt to do just that.

26.10.12

Mother Spirit

On the eve of A.'s grandma's memorial service, once again death reminds me that this life is momentary. I watch N. sleep and want to celebrate all of the little happenings worth toasting to! Like A. & N.'s healthy hearts, afternoon strolls with N., or mint cookie ice cream.

In honor of A.'s grandma, Maria Agustin Lopez (b. 12.05.1925 – d. 10.02.2012), who raised him in the Philippines for his first seven years.

with radiant strength
like the island sun

tulad ng araw sa isla
with the flow of grace

ang daloy ng biyaya
as in an autumn rainfall
she is gone
children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren

bata, inapo, at mahusay na mga inapo
follow her 96 years
beloved Mother Spirit

minamahal Ina Espiritu